It's a horrible disease. You don't want it. You don't want anyone to have it. It robs people of their memories and of who they are. It takes their mind first, then their body. And ultimately, the body forgets how to eat or breathe. It can take years, even decades, but the deterioration is inevitable and an unbearable process to experience.
A lifelong friend of mine, Sharon, has passed after 11 agonizing years with the disease. She did not recognized her childhood sweetheart and husband of 46 years. She did not attend her youngest daughter's wedding, as its purpose would have confused her. While she has seen her first grandchild, she could not understand who she was or even what a grandchild is. This is a family that is so close and loving, that they seemed like a group of peers more than parents and children, with both daughters thinking of their mom like a third sister. It's not fair. It's too cruel. A shell of a human was left where once there was the sweetest, kindest, most loving person there could be. SaGud Things has become my way to help, and a contribution will be made, in hopes of finding a cure, with every sale.
This is a photo of Sharon when she still knew us. Her husband already was aware that she was failing, but on this particular visit, he kept it private. I thought it might be her rye sense of humor, or the wine, or both, but it would be the last time she was still Sharon to me. While not remembering things as simple as what food she liked, she put on a good front when she couldn't remember something. This is a girl I have known since we were teenagers and, now, at 68, she is gone. I miss her so much, her giggle, her warm hugs.
The statistics are staggering. Millions of patients. Billions of dollars. Us Baby Boomers are in for a rough ride. This illness, alone, could bankrupt the country. I've included a link to answer any questions you may have about this disease, but it offers no way back, so bookmark this page and you won't get lost!
